Recently, our ministry to the nursing homes and rehabilitation centers of northwestern Pennsylvania and northeastern Ohio have been, well, to say the least....interesting! I don't share the following information to scare off anyone considering a nursing home ministry, but to bring a sense of reality to the work.
While most of the time, our services are orderly and very much appreciated, on occasion they present a real challenge. Such was the case recently while at a local nursing home with some of our church folks. The facility is undergoing renovations, and as a result, has lost or misplaced the songbooks that we use for our services. One was located for me to use so I could lead the singing, but some of the residents became agitated, wanting a book of their own. We had a pretty good attendance that day and it was getting crowded near the door. Several had to be moved around, and that created some confusion. When someone does NOT want to be moved, you're headed for trouble! Priscilla was trying to help out, and one lady grabbed her arm and pinched her. Then her skirt was grabbed and pulled. Finally, one of our church ladies ran to her rescue! One man, who seems to be on a downward trend, kept getting up and moving his chair around. Meanwhile, just outside the door of the activity room, where some other folks from our church were sitting, there was more commotion going on that I found out about later. BUT....despite all of this, a man trusted Christ after the preaching! God seems to override even the most distracting circumstances to bring people to salvation.
Unfortunately, we had to make a decision to discontinue our ministry in another facility. For some time now, we have had some troubles in this home, ever since new management assumed control. They have gone through a number of activity directors, and now have someone in that capacity who was formerly in another facility we ministered in that is now closed. This particular place has no decent room for us to meet in and we have been moved from a dining area to a small room to a hallway with heavy traffic of people interrupting the service by their passing through. I always call the staff if, for some reason, we are not able to fulfill our service on a given day (doctor's visits, illness, car trouble, etc.), but time and again, we have showed up only to find out we're not on the schedule for the day. The other day, after hurrying to pick up my wife from her volunteer work at Foundation Christian School (Pastor Phil Thomas' school) so we could get to the nursing home on time, we arrived once more to find out they hadn't planned on us coming. We decided the time has come to remove this facility from our schedule and look for an opening in another. There's a sense in which this is discouraging because we hate to give up on anyone, but there is also a sense of relief from the frustration of a less-than-positive attitude on the part of the facility's management and staff.
On the positive side, we had a great service at the Walnut Creek Golden Living Center in Erie the other day. While no one expressed interest in trusting Christ, there were many positive comments of appreciation from the residents for our being there, and a first-time visitor who just arrived at the facility the day before, who took a gospel tract.
The nursing home ministry is extremely rewarding, but you have to learn to balance out the good days with the bad. I wouldn't trade it for anything!
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